| n | Talk with your fiancé and all parents or family members you choose to involve regarding budget, style, size of event, location, time of year, and attendees. |
| n | Determine whether or not you would like to hire an event planner to assist in all the research and planning details. (your other option is a partial, or day-of coordinator-which can be hired at a later date) |
| n | Start thinking about the overall style and theme of your reception. Browse our Gallery for ideas. |
| n | Begin researching and visiting reception or Venue sites. |
| n | Set the date and locations: Reserve the ceremony site, Reception Cite, and accomodation for out-of-town Guests. |
| n | Book your hotel room for your wedding night and pre-wedding night. |
| n | Select your wedding party attendants. |
| n | Start reseaching and booking your wedding vendors. |
| n | Reseach these major planning details : Catering (if not provided by your reception venue) Ceremony (if he/she is not already part of your ceremony cite) Flowers Music Photography Cakes (if not provided by your reception venue or caterer) Dresses Stationary and invitations Transportation Favors & Gifts |
| n | Interview and begin booking your vendors. Concentrate on booking major vendors such as the caterer, officiant, florist, musicians, photographer, and baker first. |
| n | Start shopping for your wedding gown, bridesmaid's dresses and accessories. |
| n | Research the honeymoon. (This is a great task for the groom!) |
| n | Create gift registries at your local department stores. Many registries are also available online for those guests purchasing gifts out of town. |
| n | Discuss plans for any bridal showers, engagement or bachelorette parties with your close friends and relatives. |
| n | Schedule the ceremony rehearsal, rehearsal dinner and departure brunch. |
| n | Begin gathering names and addresses and compile your guest list. |
| n | Shop for wedding invitations and stationery. |
| n | Order your wedding dress |
| n | Decide on your bridesmaids dresses and obtain ordering instructions and deadlines from the store or boutique. |
| n | Finalize your guest list and send "Save the Date" cards with hotel information to guests. (remember that everyone who receives a save-the-date will be invited to the wedding) |
| n | Call your facility coordinator or catering director to schedule the menu tasting. |
| n | If preferred, hire an event planner to assist with final details and "day of" procedures. |
| n | Reserve the honeymoon and book flights. (remember passports if needed) |
| n | Book all wedding day transportation. |
| n | Choose and book a hair and make-up artist for your wedding day. |
| n | Reserve the groom's and attendants' tuxedos at a local tuxedo shop. |
| n | Shop for favors, attendant gifts and items for welcome baskets. |
| n | Order invitations. |
| n | Schedule the bridesmaids' luncheon. |
| n | Order wedding rings. |
| n | If preferred, sign up for dance lessons. |
| n | Purchase any last accessories-stockings, lingerie, etc. |
| n | Make appointment for first dress fitting. |
| n | If preferred, hire a calligrapher and submit wording information so he/she can begin envelopes. |
| n | Finalize and confirm with your florist all flower arrangements, bouquets, and boutonnieres. |
| n | Finalize and confirm special song selections and play lists with ceremony and reception musicians. |
| n | Finalize and confirm requested shots and with your photographer. |
| n | Plan all ceremonial events with the clergy member, including any music, readings and vows. |
| n | Write your wedding vows and any speeches if you wish. |
| n | Shop for honeymoon outfits. |
| n | Mail invitations, being sure to use proper postage. |
| n | Call your wedding coordinator, catering director, and reception facility manager with an estimated guest count. |
| n | Print programs for the ceremony. |
| n | Mail rehearsal/rehearsal dinner invitations. |
| n | Pick up the wedding rings and double check the fit. |
| n | Try out hairstyle and make-up. |
| n | Log RSVP's as they come in for meal choices. |
| n | Contact the wedding coordinator about hotel room blocks, confirm reservations for appropriate guests. |
| n | Assemble visitor gift baskets to place in the hotel rooms of those traveling from out-of-town. Remember to include directions from the hotel to the ceremony and reception site. |
| n | Schedule final dress fitting. Make sure bridesmaids have done the same. |
| n | Get name change forms if you plan to change your name. |
| n | Most room blocks will no longer be held after this date. Be sure that all visitors have confirmed their room reservations. |
| n | Begin preparing place cards and table cards. |
| n | Apply for marriage license. |
| n | Confirm schedule, arrival times and any other arrangements with all vendors. It may be helpful to fax directions, contact numbers and the day's itinerary to all vendors. |
| n | Confirm honeymoon reservations: including flights, hotel accommodations, and any rental cars. |
| n | Contact wedding coordinator, catering manager, and facility manager with initial meal choices. |
| n | Make final facility rental payment. |
| n | Confirm tuxedo arrangements. |
| n | Begin packing for honeymoon. |
| n | Pick up your dress and break in your shoes. |
| n | Confirm rehearsal arrangements with bridal party. |
| n | Contact wedding coordinator, catering manager, and facility manager with final guest count estimate. |
| n | Schedule time to drop off favors, place cards, seating chart etc. |
| n | Make a check-list of final things to remember. |
| n | Drop off favors, place cards, seating chart etc. |
| n | Contact wedding coordinator, catering manager, and facility manager with final guest count, entrĂˆe choices, and clear any outstanding payments. |
| n | Complete packing for honeymoon, prepare to check into your hotel. |
| n | Take some time to relax at some point during the day, and think about something besides the wedding. |
| n | Drink plenty of fluids-especially in the summer-and avoid sodium. |
| n | Attend the rehearsal ceremony and rehearsal dinner. |
| n | Get to bed early and get some rest. |
| n | Eat a good breakfast with family and friends. |
| n | Enjoy any pre-wedding primping. |
| n | Put wedding announcements in the mail. |
| n | Relax and enjoy your day. |